Guys temperament VS Girls temperament?
Now, I dont know to what extent this is true, but Im gonna say it anyway haha.
Well for a start, they say:
Men live by logic, women live by feelings.
A man makes decisions based on how he thinks,
A woman makes decisions based on how she feels.
To some extent, life itself, to me at least, has shown that this is somewhat true.
Take a guy for instance, if a guy likes someone, there's nothing a girl can do, that can make him change his mind. They say, he's just plain stubborn. A guy can have a bad day, but if he comes across someone, whom in his MIND, he likes or feel comfortable with, he can be really nice.
A guy can have a nice day, productive at work, have great sex at home, earn lots of money, good food cooked by his wife, the moment he sees someone he doesnt like, he can just lose his temper. Because in his MIND, he THINKS in a way thats opposing to the other party.
Acting on logic.
Women on the other hand, are the exact opposite.
They may like someone, but because their day is bad, they FEEL drained and frustrated, even if she likes or feels comfortable with you, you're gonna get it.
Likewise, if they have a good day, even if you offended her in some way, but because at that moment, she feels good, she wll at least give you some face and show you some respect.
Acting on emotions.
So if you are smart...
If you wanna make a guy happy, earn his respect, give him a good impression. Even if he's depressed, he can and wouldnt mind talking to you.
But beware of just one mistake or wrong impression, ignoring or gossiping...
If you wanna make a girl happy, be there for her, talk to her. Do some nice things together. Once she feels better, she will talk to you. If not, even though you're her best friend, she still wouldnt talk to you.
If you have a girl friend with bad days most of the time,
You can forget it. She's not going to talk to you for a long long time!
What works for a guy, will NEVER work for a girl.
What makes you happy, may not necessarily make the other gender happy.
Somehow God made it that way. To make life more fun and interesting.
If we knew everything there is to know, whats the point of living anymore?
Im sure God didnt create 70-80 years for you to 'geng' your way through right?
They say knowledge is power. With knowledge of each other, there is power in the friendship and relationship. When there is power, there is unity. But it all boils down to taking initiative and being patient in love.
Life is a lifelong learning process, not just academically, but relationally as well.
Just when you think you've known the opposite gender, you'll still get surprises here and there.
Disappointment = Expectation - Reality
Have a change in mindset, when your mind is open, you gain more.
Its so funny, how people wanna gain but they remain closed.
If you're thinking multitasking, nonono, this is not how it works. o.o
Well for a start, they say:
Men live by logic, women live by feelings.
A man makes decisions based on how he thinks,
A woman makes decisions based on how she feels.
To some extent, life itself, to me at least, has shown that this is somewhat true.
Take a guy for instance, if a guy likes someone, there's nothing a girl can do, that can make him change his mind. They say, he's just plain stubborn. A guy can have a bad day, but if he comes across someone, whom in his MIND, he likes or feel comfortable with, he can be really nice.
A guy can have a nice day, productive at work, have great sex at home, earn lots of money, good food cooked by his wife, the moment he sees someone he doesnt like, he can just lose his temper. Because in his MIND, he THINKS in a way thats opposing to the other party.
Acting on logic.
Women on the other hand, are the exact opposite.
They may like someone, but because their day is bad, they FEEL drained and frustrated, even if she likes or feels comfortable with you, you're gonna get it.
Likewise, if they have a good day, even if you offended her in some way, but because at that moment, she feels good, she wll at least give you some face and show you some respect.
Acting on emotions.
So if you are smart...
If you wanna make a guy happy, earn his respect, give him a good impression. Even if he's depressed, he can and wouldnt mind talking to you.
But beware of just one mistake or wrong impression, ignoring or gossiping...
If you wanna make a girl happy, be there for her, talk to her. Do some nice things together. Once she feels better, she will talk to you. If not, even though you're her best friend, she still wouldnt talk to you.
If you have a girl friend with bad days most of the time,
You can forget it. She's not going to talk to you for a long long time!
What works for a guy, will NEVER work for a girl.
What makes you happy, may not necessarily make the other gender happy.
Somehow God made it that way. To make life more fun and interesting.
If we knew everything there is to know, whats the point of living anymore?
Im sure God didnt create 70-80 years for you to 'geng' your way through right?
They say knowledge is power. With knowledge of each other, there is power in the friendship and relationship. When there is power, there is unity. But it all boils down to taking initiative and being patient in love.
Life is a lifelong learning process, not just academically, but relationally as well.
Just when you think you've known the opposite gender, you'll still get surprises here and there.
Disappointment = Expectation - Reality
Have a change in mindset, when your mind is open, you gain more.
Its so funny, how people wanna gain but they remain closed.
If you're thinking multitasking, nonono, this is not how it works. o.o
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