Short post, Update, Love

Something came to mind when I was in the toilet.

Relationship ends, the moment it becomes a contract.

The moment you or e other party starts implementing your own terms and conditions.
The moment you set targets or timeframes.
The moment you take it from a place of infinity, to a place of limitation.

God is love, and love is infinite, unconditional, boundless and eternal.

God is love, until you know God, you have not known love.

A relationship is meant for you to love each other,
Not to tolerate each other. Dont blame the other person if he/she doesnt change. Too bad.
You shouldve mixed your heart with your brains.

Afterall, you DID chose him/her before you realised the need for him/her to change!

When God loved the world, He didnt say, 'believe in Me or go to hell'. In fact, He didnt even say anything. He went down there, demonstrated His love, "I love you...God forgive them, etc..", and moved on. He was secure, He did what He had to do, to the best of His abilities. The rest was up to us. In fact, I dont remember God ever saying, "Love Me", in the entire bible.

He did say "repent'', but never once, "love me". Because "love me" belongs to the devil. God never asks us anything to benefit Himself. Besides, He is Almighty, is there even anything that He needs, such that He even needs some form of benefit?

Even the 1st commandment, it says, "Love the Lord, YOUR God."
And not "Love Me, for I am your God."

Ive got a revelation, and I dont think anyone has said something like this before:

The desire to love, brings you into a love relationship.
The desire to be loved, brings you into a LOVED (past tense, it's over) relationship.