Correction, Discipline, Communicating Needs

The simplest way to enjoy a relationship is to lovingly express your need and patiently hear other people's needs.

Communication is the key to life.
What is a key, a key is something that unlocks.

Learn to talk. More than talking, having 2 ears, learn to listen.

When you're angry, learn to say, "Hi, what you did is making me angry, can we talk?"

Or when you're hurt, learn to say, "Hi, are you free? Can we talk? I just wanna say that somehow Im hurt by what you did/said just now.."

The tone? It's calm and casual.

Being loud doesnt bring your point across,
Being loud simply brings your insanity across.

It takes a strong and loving person to scold softly.
And a weak and immature one to do the opposite.

When you correct in love, the person understands.
When you correct under impulsion, the person resents.

Discipline is an art of communication. Not an animal instinct.

Any relationship or career, or anything else for that matter,
That isnt built on truth wont last.

Even when loving, it's always best to love truthfully.
Never be afraid of what people will think or say.
Because in the first place, love understands.

Its better to knock a kerb and reverse,
Than to drive off a cliff and die.