Brunch @ School

during brunch, i suddenly remembered something i saw during that night @ Botak Jones. haha.

the menu they had was quite unique and well designed i must say. i dunno if u noticed but at e bottom there are famous quotes haha.

and 2 of them that really caught my attention was:

A woman never stops worrying till she finds a husband.
A man never starts worrying till he finds a wife.

and..

A man will spend $10 for a $20 item he needs.
A woman will spend $20 for a $10 item she doesnt need.

LOL..i literally laughed..hahaha..=x

okay, im gonna be sooo dead. haha. anyway, i dont understand people who dont wake up their idea. going from one relationship to another.

dont enter a relationship to be loved. IT DOESNT WORK (even tho it comes naturally, thats not the main reason!) the reason why people break up is because they want to be LOVED, they dont want to LOVE, they dont want to commit, they dont want to be accountable and responsible!

so many people i know..enter a relationship and go, "i want this..". NOT EVEN A SINGLE ONE will say, "what do you want?" always, "I", "Me", "myself". no wonder you break up! i just feel like waking some people up now.

actually i dont even know who im talking about. it just irritates me. people who are stubborn, OBLIVIOUS TO REALITY..living a lie, not living in truth! anything not built on truth wont last. people always tell their bf/gf, "do you know how i feel???". If there is a lack of communication, DONT EXPECT HIM/HER TO KNOW!

if you cant even communicate effectively you wanna enter a relationship? DREAM ON. you cant even relate to people! dont expect people to know what you are thinking.

you cant change what you're not willing to confess!

the bible doesnt have the word 'boyfriend' or 'girlfriend'. they only have man/woman, husband/wife. boyfriends are boys, girlfriends are girls. they never grow up!

ps kong said once, its better to find a husband/wife, than to find a boyfriend/girlfriend. go find a girlfriend all you want, i shall find a wife. and that really impressed me in a great way. what a revelation! =)

i shall end this entry with some pics. taken from desmond's camera. waiting for jianhao to upload his =) then ill post again. haha.

Haha what am i doing? and how come theres a diagonal STRIPE on my head!!!! :O lol..i didnt notice until now! =x haha.

W460 Tasty Thursday =)

Haha..whats with the fork? :O which reminds me..time to retake video 7! muahaha! LOL

oh yes..one more thing..

last night was talking to tim, he was sharing something and yesterday was a really strange day for me..haha 3 people came to me to share their problems. its amazing how God can use someone like me..

i was telling tim..i dont have to be as 'exciting' as thad, as energetic as pohchoo, as street-wise as tricia, as lively as elaine, or as knowledgeable as thomas..

i just have to be myself. i become emo when i compare myself with others..i know im not created to be the rah-rah kind, im more of a 'backstage' guy. the one who sits quietly in e background, listening to people sharing their burdens and carrying it for them silently...e one who fasts and prays even when no one else is doing it..

i cant plan, im a man of few words, im not the chatty kind, im at most times boring..but all i have, is a ear to listen, a heart to understand, a shoulder to cry on, a voice that encourages, and a hand that brings down e presence of God.

im not designed to be the attention-seeker. i realised, it doesnt matter anymore whether ppl notice me or not..which is why im not so 'emo' anymore. unless im really tired and shagged like last week. not enough sleep, not feeling well, etc. even so, i still try to be happy.

im happy, just to be there. im happy, just to be the "backstage" guy in the cg. =)

the attitude of servanthood..

thank God for power98! haha..keeps me company..TOR (Terms of Reference) finishing. intending to start diagrams and charts and graphs next week!